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Stop Using One Chrome Profile for Everything

17 May 2024 at 13:30

Here is the secret to how I stay sane, even on the busiest day: Multiple Google Chrome profiles. Right now, I have four. One is tied to my personal Gmail, one is for my school, one is for work here at Lifehacker, and one is for another endeavor I help out with. I’ve even color-coded them so when I toggle back and forth, I get a little visual cue that I’m switching gears. I can’t recommend this method enough to stay organized in all the different parts of your life, and here’s why. 

Why have multiple Chrome profiles? 

The first and most obvious reason I don’t want to use the same browser profile for everything is that the amount of tabs I’d have open at one time would overwhelm me. In my personal browser, I work on things like my bills, my side jobs, my hobbies, my interests, social media, and keeping up with my friends and family. In my school profile, I am logged into sites that help me make bibliographies, access libraries of journal articles, and check my grades. For work, I use my profile to check my email, research for stories, write the stories, and log into our story editor. In fact, I’m not logged into social media on the school or work profiles, logged into anything for school on the personal or work profiles, or logged into anything related to my job on the personal or school profiles. This helps me keep it all separate without having to close tabs for space, plus it helps me stay focused on whatever I’m working on, since I can’t as easily open social media when I’m writing an essay or respond to a school email when I’m at work. Each profile is associated with a specific Google account, so it contains a unique Gmail inbox and access to Google Docs, too. Not having my personal documents, work documents, and school documents all mashed together in the same Drive helps me keep them all much more organized. 

My fourth profile is for a separate business endeavor I do with other people. We’re all logged into that same profile, which makes collaboration really easy. We can update the Google Calendar, see important emails, and coordinate responses, plus have a shared search history, bookmarks, etc. 

I really like this level of separation. Like I said, I even downloaded different colored themes for each profile. When I’m seeing the lilac-colored theme, I know it’s time to work. The dark purple theme signals it’s time to focus on school and the rainbow theme means I am handling personal business. Each of these profiles has its own search history, bookmarks, saved locations, and settings, which also helps keep everything organized and siloed. Each of the profiles aligns with one of my many email addresses, but not all of my Gmail accounts have a profile on my computer. The Gmails I use for spam or for signing up for trial accounts of certain apps, for instance, only get used on my phone and in the event I need to open one up on my computer, I just do that in a private window.

It has become second nature to me now. I would never open the lilac or purple profile to stream a Twins game or use my personal one to read about the topics I cover for work. It wouldn’t even occur to me and that division helps me stay focused on whatever I’m doing in the moment. Sometimes, though, I do tackle multiple things at once—and the division helps there, too. I can stream a game in my personal profile while I write a paper for school without sacrificing much-needed tab space in my academic profile; it just runs in the background, in another window.

Ways to use separate Chrome profiles

Everyone’s needs are different, but here are some ideas for separate profiles you could use:

  • One to manage your home, where you only do things related to maintenance, renovation, paying bills, etc. 

  • One to manage kids’ lives, where you keep their schedule, contact childcare or their school, and make searches related to their needs.

  • One to handle extended family stuff, like receive chain emails from your Boomer aunt, schedule family get-togethers, or even help your parents manage their affairs if they’re not very tech-savvy.

  • One profile just for social media use, to stop yourself from accessing Facebook or X or whatever else while you’re working and make your social media time more intentional.

  • One for every job, which is something I’ve considered but haven’t gotten around to doing, but which could help you sort through various money-making and professional obligations, especially if you’re a freelancer or a business owner with a bunch of them.

  • One for each major work project, to make collaboration easier and keep everything related to the project in one place, like a Single Source of Truth.

These are, of course, just suggestions, but you can make a new profile for any aspect of your life that involves correspondence, scheduling, or researching. 

How to make separate Chrome profiles

First of all, you don’t need a Gmail account to create a Google Account, so if you use Outlook for work or school, this won’t preclude you from making a separate profile. 

Create Chrome profile
Credit: Lindsey Ellefson

To create a new profile, open Chrome and click your profile icon in the top right corner, then, “Add.” From there, you’ll be asked to choose between “Sign in,” which you'll choose you'll link a Google Account to the profile, or “Continue without an account,” if you don’t. From there, you’ll enter in your username and password (or skip that part), agree to turn on sync, and give the profile a name and add an optional photo and color scheme. 

When you want to access a certain profile, right-click (or two-finger click if you’re on a Mac) on the Chrome icon, then select your preferred profile from the list. It will open a new window just for that profile. 

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11 of the Best Methods for Decluttering Your Home

14 May 2024 at 17:30

There are so many techniques and methods out there to help you declutter your home, but they all have the same goal: downsizing how much junk you have and getting the rest of it organized. Where they differ is methodologies. Some are better suited to larger homes or heavier junk volumes, for instance, while others leave some wiggle room for items you feel sentimental about and are hesitant to part with, and some force you to be a little more objective and decisive when tossing things out. Here are some of my favorite decluttering techniques.

The ski-slope method

Anita Yokota's ski-slope method was born from her experience as a licensed therapist and interior designer and is meant to help you declutter in a way that won't be overwhelming for you mentally. She outlines the method in her book Home Therapy: Interior Design for Increasing Happiness, Boosting Confidence, and Creating Calm, suggesting you imagine your messy room like a ski slope, zig-zagging from section to section instead of working in a straight line, as you would if you were skiing down a hill.

Rather than looking at it as a whole (a huge mess you'll never be able to clean!), start in one corner or section and work from there: Clean, declutter, and organize. Move to the next side or section and do it again. Continue moving through the room, working from side to side. As you finish each section, you can pause for a break if you need to, then pick back up where you left off.

Project 333

Adhere to the TikTok-famous Project 333, which comes from comes from Courtney Carver's Project 333: The Minimalist Fashion Challenge That Proves Less Really Is So Much More, if you want to pare down your wardrobe and create a "capsule wardrobe" of basic, mix-and-matchable pieces over time. Start by selecting only 33 pieces of clothing, jewelry, and accessories (excluding underwear or sentimental, everyday-wear jewelry), then boxing everything else up for three months. At the end of that time, you'll have combined your 33 pieces to make outfits and will have a better sense of what you really need for daily wear and what you own that might be good for donating.

For a similar approach, you can adapt the Pareto principle or 80/20 rule, recognizing that you use about 20% of your stuff 80% of the time, whether that's the clothes you wear every day, the kitchen tools you use to make your most common meals, or anything else that you reach for the majority of the time. Once you start identifying the 80% of things you rarely use, it becomes pretty easy to give them the boot.

The 12-12-12 method

This is one of the longer-term methods on the list and it calls on you to overhaul your lifestyle a bit. When you use the 12-12-12 method, you find 12 things to throw away, 12 things to donate, and 12 things to put away—every day. With 12 in each category every day, you're dealing with a number small enough to work with in an achievable way but big enough to make an impact on your clutter. Of course, you can move that number up or down slightly to accommodate your own needs, but the real idea here is that you get in the habit of identifying what you can get rid of and what needs to be organized and put away every day.

The Organizational Triangle

Another longer-term, lifestyle-altering approach is the use of the Organizational Triangle, a concept from by pro organizer Andrew Mellen, the man behind The Most Organized Man in America's Guide to Moving and Unstuff Your Life: Kick the Clutter Habit and Completely Organize Your Life for Good. This three-tiered approach provides a simple process for maintaining a clutter-free home:

  • Every item needs a home

  • Keep like with like

  • Use a "something in, something out" approach

By making sure you get into the habit of putting everything where it belongs (and getting rid of things that don't belong anywhere), storing everything with related items, and getting rid of one thing every time you bring something new in, you can not only get organized, but stay organized.

The five-second rule

The five-second rule is a trick you can use when you're decluttering to make fast decisions about what stays and what goes. It's a widely-adaptable technique from organizational coach Mel Robbins, who advocates for it in her books. Basically, you should make major decisions in under five seconds, counting down five, four, three, two, one so your brain senses some urgency. At the end of the countdown, you have to make a choice and when you're decluttering, you'll decide whether to keep something and find a place for it or toss it or donate it. In your heart, you already know which items are useful and need to stick around. Instead of deliberating over the decision, make it fast and keep going so you don't lose momentum.

If you're really stuck after five seconds, there are two questions you can ask yourself to illuminate the right choice: According to organizational gurus the Minimalists, you should ask yourself, "Could I replace this item for less than $20?" and "Could I replace it in less than 20 minutes?" If the answer to both is yes, that thing can go. The space you'll save by tossing it will be worth the $20 you may spend in the unlikely event you ever need it again.

KonMari

Arguably the most famous method on the list, Marie Kondo's KonMari leaves a little room for the items you care about, even if they have fewer practical uses than others. Kondo's method of organizing follows a few simple steps designed to ensure “you will never again relapse to clutter.” Here’s what she calls for

  1. Commit yourself to tidying up.

  2. Imagine your ideal lifestyle.

  3. Finish discarding first.

  4. Tidy by category and not by location.

  5. Follow the right order.

  6. Ask yourself if it sparks joy, and get rid of it if it doesn't.

The Peter Walsh method

Walsh method is similar to Kondo's, but a little stricter. Compare her steps with his and spot the differences:

  1. Empty your space.

  2. Create a vision for the space and set an intention for it.

  3. Sort everything you removed into a “vision” pile and an “out-the-door” pile.

  4. Get rid of the “out-the-door pile” by donating or throwing everything away.

  5. Move everything from the “vision” pile back into the space.

Fully emptying your space is more intense than just organizing it as-is, so choose this technique if you really need an overhaul.

Decluttering at the Speed of Life

The Decluttering at the Speed of Life method comes from Dana K. White, who has chronicled her “deslobification” journey on a blog since she began in 2009. She took notes of all her wins and failures as she sought to find a way to declutter without getting overwhelmed, keeping track of what worked and what didn’t—and ultimately published a book, Decluttering at the Speed of Life: Winning Your Never-Ending Battle with Stuff. To utilize her technique, select a small area, and do these five things:

  1. Start with trash, like receipts, wrappers, bags, anything that is broken, expired food or products, or anything you simply don’t need or use at all. Throw all that away.

  2. Do the easy stuff. Put everything you see out of place back where it belongs.

  3. Categorize “duh clutter,” or anything that could be donated. Keep a box on hand and toss anything worthy of donation into it. 

  4. Ask yourself one or two decluttering questions. First, “If I needed this item, where would I look for it?” If you can instantly think of an answer, take the item where it belongs. If you can’t think of an answer, ask a follow-up: “If I needed this item, would it occur to me that I already had one?” Get rid of the thing if the answers are no.

  5. Finally, make it fit. Only keep what you have space for and organize those.

Throw a packing party

Another intense, room-clearing option is the "packing party," which also comes from the Minimalists. To throw a packing party, invite your friends over and have them help you pack everything in the room into boxes, as if you were moving, and label those boxes. For three weeks after that, live your life as normal, only pulling things out of the boxes if and as you need them. At the end of the three weeks, go through whatever you haven't needed and commit to throwing or donating most of it. This method helps you "move back in" to a cleaner space full of only the things you really need.

365 Less Things

Colleen Madsen's unique 365 Less Things technique is a slow burn. It will take a year to complete, but at the end of that year, you'll be living in a cleaner, more organized space—and will have built up the habits that can keep it that way. All you do is commit to getting rid of one thing every day for a year. The goal here isn't instant progress, but incremental progress that you can learn from. Set a reminder in your phone for every day at a certain time and, when the alarm goes off, find one thing to get rid of. You can donate it, sell it, or throw it away, but it has to go. The beauty of this method is that while it takes time, the time is actually beneficial: Eventually, it'll become second nature to find and get rid of one thing in your home every day. Plus, decluttering so incrementally is a lot less overwhelming than other methods of home cleaning and organization, so it's perfect for if you're feeling too put-upon by the daunting task.

The Before and After technique

Finally, if you're a more visual person, the Before and After approach from Becoming Minimalist is for you. Pick a small section of your home, like a countertop or junk drawer, and snap a picture of it. Then, clean it up. Just focus on the small area you photographed. Once you’re done, take a new picture and compare the two. Do this any time you have a few minutes to dedicate to a minor cleaning task, so the pics are right next to each other in your camera roll. When you can see the difference just by swiping between the two photos, you’ll feel motivated to keep going. Without the pictures, it can be hard to remember what the mess even looked like, so you won’t stay as motivated to clean or keep it clean.

If you need more motivation, here are my favorite tools to use to declutter.

Everything You Should ‘Decant’ to Better Organize Your Home

13 May 2024 at 15:30

If you've ever stumbled upon a TikTok video or Instagram reel of someone restocking their fridge and pouring all their juice out of its original carton into a clear bottle, putting all their canned beverages in a designated rack instead of the cardboard box they came in, and removing snacks from their container just to rearrange them some other way, you may have thought, "What is the point of all that?" Why do goods come in boxes and containers if not to be stored in them, too? While it might seem like a purely an aesthetic play, there are some good reasons for decanting all your stuff if you're looking to keep your home really organized.

Why decant your goods?

First of all, it just looks nice if you store everything in glass bottles or jars. If your cookies are in a big jar, instead of a package that says "OREOS," or your laundry detergent is in a clear dispenser instead of a big jug that says "GAIN," you get a sleeker, more put-together look. It's good for the planet—to an extent. If your city has refill stations or stores, you can bring your containers in and fill them with laundry soap, dish soap, lotion, shampoo, and all kinds of other materials instead of having to repeatedly buy single-use plastics, which is a good habit to get into. Search "refill store near me" or "zero waste store near me" if you're not sure whether there's one in your area.

Beyond that, decanting and using your own containers is a major win for organizing. You can get vessels that stack easier on top of one another, for instance, which saves more space than if you try to cram all the different sizes and shapes of store-bought containers together in your fridge or cabinet. If you use clear containers, you can quickly see what you're running low on and what you have enough of, stopping you from accidentally buying too much and letting it take up space.

Some good decanting options

You may already be doing a little decanting of your own. Maybe you have a set of accessories for the bathroom that includes a matching soap dispenser, which requires you to pour soap from a large jug into a smaller decorative vessel. Hell, if you use salt and pepper shakers, you're decanting, too. But there are all kinds of opportunities for better storage out there.

  • These two plastic containers each hold about 50 ounces and are recommended for laundry detergent (and have corresponding laundry labels included), but can be used for anything you need to pour, like milk ($25.59).

  • These two 1.25-gallon jugs are multi-use, since you can access dry and scoopable goods from the top or use the spout at the bottom to dispense liquids ($39.59).

  • These drink organizers let you store nine soda or beer cans at a time with a much smaller footprint than if you tried to set them in the fridge side by side, but you can also use them to store cups and other round items in the cabinet ($15.16 for four).

  • You can get all kinds of things to hold and dispense various sauces. I have these restaurant-style squeeze bottles for my condiments ($7.82 for two) but you can grab this glass bottle that both pours and spritzes olive oil ($16.99) and this precision-pouring soy sauce dispenser ($14.99), too.

  • And don't forget a toiler paper holder, like this one that stores six rolls will making a seventh convenient for grabbing when you need it ($39.99)

The Real Cost of a Peloton

13 May 2024 at 13:30

Like anyone who was about to drop over $1,000 on something, I did my research before I got my Peloton to find out precisely what the bike and a membership to stream classes for it would cost me. The home-based fitness giant is straightforward about that on the Peloton website: A basic bike is $1,445 and the Bike+ is $2,495. The All-Access membership is $44 per month and my shipping and setup were free. There are other costs associated with the bike, though, that I didn’t consider before I got mine.

Additional Peloton needs and costs

Even though I’m a spin teacher, I’ve always hated cycling shoes. I do not like to clip in and out of the pedals and I don’t like the way it feels to be anchored to them in just one spot. I much prefer having a strap to cover my regular sneakers and all the bikes at every gym I’ve ever taught or taken a class at have had pedals that feature clips on one side and straps on the other. This is not true for the Peloton, which has small pedals that can only work with clip-in shoes. I discovered this the first night I had the bike and was disappointed, but after dropping all that money earlier in the day, I didn’t want to buy the shoes the company sells separately for $125. Luckily, any Delta-compatible cleats will work with the bike, so I ordered a pair of $40 cleats from Amazon; in general, you’ll likely spend between $39 and $55 on shoes if you don’t already own a pair of Delta cycling cleats. 

That price isn’t too prohibitive, but if you also hate cycling shoes, this could be a bigger issue you need to keep in mind—especially if your bike will have multiple users, all of whom need shoes in their own size. 

I also noticed my bike wobbling a bit on my uneven floor, which was more noisy than destabilizing. I got a cheap cushion from the dollar store to stuff under the front of my bike which solved the problem temporarily, but over the long term, you should place a mat under the bike to protect your floor. Peloton sells one for $75;Amazon sells similar ones for around $30.

Finally, Peloton offers a selection of classes that incorporate hand weights and the bikes include little holsters for them—but they cost extra, too. In this case, it’s probably your best bet to buy the branded ones to make sure they fit right in the holsters. The last thing you (and your floor and surrounding valuables) need is your weights unsecure while you’re riding hard. The light weights are $25.

Other Peloton accessories to buy

When you make a big purchase, you want to get the most out of it and really juice it up. With a Peloton, you’ll find a variety of accessories available that make riding your bike more fun or efficient. They’re not necessary, but they’re tempting:

I also recently tried out a VSEAT ($119), a bike seat with no front section between the legs and a flatter design than a traditional seat. It promises to reduce groin pressure and improve posture, which it did do for me, and it was easy to install, too.

Overall Peloton costs

Spending some extra money on my bike wasn't that big of a deal in the long run, although I could (and should) have spent more (and still might). Depending on how often you plan to use yours and what you want to do with it, you may spend a lot more than you initially expected. When you get yours, spend some time tracking how often you use it and what issues you’re running into before buying the whole slew of accessories and goodies for it up front.

All the Tools You Need to Motivate You to Declutter

10 May 2024 at 14:30

With all the decluttering methods out there, you have options for how you are going to go about battling all the junk in your home. But they do all have basic tenets and requirements in common. Whether you move through the space in bursts, store items you might want to hold onto but aren't sure about, or follow rules governing how you determine whether to toss or keep things, there are a few things you'll need: Here's what to pick up before you start.

You need boxes for decluttering

No matter what technique you're following, you need boxes. You need at least three, maybe four: One for things you'll keep, one for things you'll throw, one for things you'll donate, and maybe one for things you'll sell. You can get big ones or small ones, depending on the volume of items you have to go through or whether you're working on small areas one at a time. Try these:

You need labels for decluttering

Those boxes and the spaces you're organizing could benefit from some labels. You need to be able to easily recognize what is for keeping, what is for donating, and where the things you've decided to keep should be stored. Try these:

Reusable ones are best for the actual decluttering process, as you can write notes or make specific designations, then change them when new needs arise. For labeling the storage of things you keep, you need something a little nicer. Try the chalkboard labels above, which still reusable but look sharp on containers.

You could also try a label maker, which produces labels that aren't as retro as you're imagining. With most label-makers these days, you can get decorative label paper and some even print in color, so you can customize your labels to look exactly how you want.

You need trash bags to declutter

You'll be throwing away and recycling a lot, so buy your trash bags in bulk and make sure you have the ones that are appropriate for your city's waste disposal. In general, try to use opaque ones when possible, so you can have a sense of finality when you make the decision to toss something out and can't see it anymore once it goes into the void. You can get 56 30-gallon black bags from Hefty for $15.41.

Other potential decluttering needs

Consider your space and plans before you start. Are there high cabinets? You might need a step stool. Are some spots not only disorganized and cluttered, but actually dirty? You might need rubber gloves. Do you plan to sell some of what you're getting rid of online? You might need a simple background. (I use a faux fur rug for all my Poshmark sales.)

Taking notes on the needs of your specific project and making sure you get it all in advance will stop you from running into barriers or holdups, which can derail motivation and stall your progress altogether. Plus, once you have everything you'll need, you'll likely feel a little more of a push to get started, so stocking up before you begin is a win-win.

The Best Way to Say Goodbye to Sentimental Items

10 May 2024 at 13:30

A lot of decluttering methods are intimidatingly objective, prompting you to make split-second decisions about what stays and what goes and not allowing yourself to get too sentimental about anything, but to focus on each item's usefulness in your life. Some methods, like KonMari, leave a little space for things that only bring you joy, but for the most part, you're just supposed to part with things that don't serve you.

The problem is, it's hard to quantify how a sentimental or emotionally meaningful item serves you at all. Letting go of your kids' old art projects or mementos, for instance, is pretty emotional, even though you're probably never really going to use (or even look at) that macaroni art from 1997 again. In my family, we tackle this problem by holding "remembrance nights" before parting with these sorts of items. Giving them a formal sendoff recognizes the value they hold, and gives you a chance to reflect before you part with them. Here's how it works.

How to hold a remembrance night for sentimental objects you need to get rid of

The last time I was home visiting my mother, she greeted me with a tower of storage boxes full of items from my childhood: old school assignments and art projects, tons of photos, and trophies and plaques of all kinds. She told me she wanted to get them out of the house, but wanted to give me one more chance to look at them and take a little trip down memory lane before she nuked them. She said I could hold on to anything really important, but for the most part, all of it would be tossed or donated the next day.

We sat for hours on the living room floor, digging through yarn-bound construction-paper journals from first grade, pictures of our family in front of Mount Rushmore and at Disney World, and the school assignments and mementos that provided physical proof that I have always been a huge nerd.

In the end, I held on to very little from those boxes—a trophy I won when I beat a specific rival in an extracurricular event in 11th grade, two cards from my late father, and a few pictures I wanted to frame. I took pictures of a few funny things (like a childhood journal entry where I opined that it should be illegal to hurt someone's feelings) in case I wanted to revisit them later. We also set aside some photos to digitize, with the mutual vow to throw them away once they were safely in the cloud.

Beyond that, the simple act of seeing everything one last time was fulfilling—a finite way to revisit my memories without burdening myself with a storage unit's worth of stuff that would look like old junk to anyone but me. I found it eased the pain of parting with this symbolic representations of the past, and it can help you too.

Why this works

As sad as it was to get rid of the tangible evidence of my childhood, in my heart I understood that I don't really need it anymore, and neither does my mom. It's all just stuff. It doesn't bring my childhood back. It just takes up space. And, as my mom says, "What's the point of holding onto the past?"

Keeping items closed away in boxes isn't meaningful. Looking through those boxes together was fun. We laughed and cried, revisited our memories, rediscovered ones we'd forgotten, and made new ones, and to say goodbye. We were also able to do a final sweep for anything we might not be ready to part with, like rare photographs. It all made untethering ourselves from the junk a lot easier.

How to prepare yourself to get rid of sentimental items

If you're having a hard time letting go of old, sentimental stuff, start by putting all of it into a box and leaving it alone for a while. (If it has all been sitting in boxes for years already, congratulations: You're halfway there.) Next, gather your friends or family (or go it solo) and hold your remembrance night. Take the time you need to go through, touch, read, look at, laugh at, or cry over every item in the box, one by one. As you do, sort each thing into one of three boxes: one for things to throw away, one for things to donate, and one for the few items you still want to keep.

Donating is especially helpful in a sentimental situation like this: It's nice to know the things that you valued are going to be valued by someone else too. My mom took all my trophies and plaques to a memorial shop in town, for instance, where they will be turned into new trophies and plaques for other little nerds (or, perhaps, athletes). I don't know who will get them, but I do hope they'll be as excited about them as I was in the 11th grade.

My Favorite Products for Combating Accutane-Related Dryness

10 May 2024 at 12:00

I've been on a real self-improvement kick lately, which involves everything from reorganizing my entire apartment to getting a Masters degree. Enhancing my environment is nice and juicing up my brain is great, but I'm also a pretty vain and aesthetics-focused person, so I didn't stop there. Even though I'm in my 30s, I decided to finally start Accutane, the famously ass-kicking prescription oral retinoid that acts as a nuclear option for acne and other skin issues. There are two promises that come along with Accutane: It will almost certainly work and it will almost certainly dry out your whole body in the process. Both of these, in my experience, are true. After five months, my skin has never looked better—except that, for now, it's flaky, peeling, cracking, and visibly parched. I knew this going in, so I started messing with various moisturizing and hydrating products right away, especially after my dermatologist told me I could throw out all my old, breakout- and texture-focused skincare since I wouldn't be needing it anymore. Here are the ones that worked best for me.

The best products for lip dryness on Accutane

For me, the most dryness has occurred on my lips, which have been in a perpetual state of chapping since about the third week of Accutane. This has been particularly heartbreaking for me because it has meant lipstick and gloss look straight-up gross, so I've probably put the most work into fixing my lips. My overall pick is the O'Keeffe's Lip Repair Night Treatment ($7.51), which goes on smooth before bed and is still there in the morning.

I've noticed my lips are softer and less dry after using this consistently, but it doesn't necessarily get rid of those flaky parts that stick up around the edges of my mouth. (This is gross, but it's true!) For that, I use the Bath & Body Works lip scrub ($10.95) and follow it up with the brand's Nourishing Lip Mask ($12.95). Don't use the scrub too often, maybe once a week or so, but it will help get rid of some of the lingering effects of chapping. Other products I like for the lips are C.O. Bigelow's My Favorite Night Balm No. 306 ($8.95) and Vanilla Lip Balm ($8.95). Obviously, I prefer overnight solutions here, with the Vanilla Lip Balm being the only thing I really call on for daytime wear, and that's a tip I feel confident sharing: Do as much as you can overnight to make all of this easier.

The best products for facial dryness on Accutane

Obviously, the face dries out, too, so I set about to make sure that while I'm investing all this time and money into getting cuter in the long term, I'm not looking busted in the short term. I have two favorite products for facial dryness, though they're very different in terms of consistency.

First is the Kate Somerville Goat Milk Moisturizing Cream ($76). This goes on thick, which I like for overnight use, and its heaviness makes it effective in sealing in moisture.

Next is the Chanel Hydra Beauty Camellia Water Cream ($64), which I bought after securing my Accutane prescription but before even taking my first pill because, and I self-quote, "I deserve a treat." Luckily, it is a treat: It's super light-weight but still really hydrating, so I put it on in the morning. It's not sticky and it absorbs super fast, but it does have a strong scent, so if that's not your jam, this might not be for you.

Beyond that, I do a sheet mask every few nights, randomly selecting one from Target or H-Mart whenever I'm shopping, and I haven't found one that works better or worse than any others, so feel free to stay on the cheap side if you do that. Some nights, I also add in the DERMA-E Firming DMAE moisturizer ($12.14) because since I'm not focusing all of my skincare energy on waging war on my pores anymore, I'm branching out into treatments and products that address other concerns. The DERMA-E also has a strong smell, but it's thick and easy to apply, plus I've noticed a smoothing effect when I use it (though no noticeable "firming" benefits...yet).

The best products for all-over dryness on Accutane

I did notice some overall dry skin beyond my face, too, but I'm already a bit of a lotion warrior, so it's been difficult to determine which of my too-many products are the ones helping me out. For instance, I use the Glossier Body Hero Dry-Touch Oil Mist ($30) and Daily Perfecting Lotion ($28) every night, but did notice that after I started the Accutane, it seemed to absorb quicker, like my skin was a little more desperate for it.

I did add two new products to my rotation to specifically address hydration concerns at different levels after starting the meds. First, I started using the Bath & Body Works Sensitive Skin Colloidal Oatmeal Body Butter ($20.95). This stuff is thick, so it takes a while to rub it in, but that's what I like about it. Its thickness literally creates a heavy layer on my skin, sealing in moisture. The thickness makes me feel like it's actually doing something. Interestingly, it also has the exact same smell as my medspa, which I mention not only because it plays weird memory-based mind tricks on me when I use it, but so I can tell you that you can get Botox and filler on Accutane, but you cannot get chemical peels. In general, always check with your derm and any other specialists before you have any treatment or invest in a heavy-duty product.

On my Bath & Body Works trip, I also found out about their moisturizing body wash line ($17.95). I do already use the Glossier Body Hero Daily Oil Wash ($28), but it feels thin and slippery and I'm not convinced it's as effective as its corresponding oil and lotion. The B&BW moisturizing body wash (which can be purchased in basically all of the brand's scents) is thicker, almost like a lotion that sudses up, and feels a little more useful in terms of actually delivering moisturizing benefits in-shower. I use it for shaving, since shaving dry skin is hard and I'm prone to bleeding a little when I try it, so the thickness comes in much handier.

Listen, any lotion is better than no lotion here. I have a vitamin E oil from a dollar store that is so cheap the cap keeps falling apart and that stuff works just fine for moisturizing, too. Consistency is more important than ingredients, fanciness, or method, so my top advice is to get as much lotion and oil as you can and stick it everywhere. Keep some in the bathroom, some in your bag, some by your bed, some by the kitchen sink, etc. Use it whenever you see it.

Other useful products for Accutane dryness

If you're worried about dryness or other side effects, bring your concerns up whenever you can. My dermatologist prescribed me a steroid cream when I told her I noticed little cuts were healing slower after starting the medicine and my optometrist gave me some extra-moisturizing eye drops that are safe for my contact lenses when I told her my eyes felt dry, too. Speaking up to the relevant experts about anything you're experiencing will yield some results.

Beyond that, I got a new humidifier to fully immerse myself in the moistest air possible. The inside of my nose feels super dry since starting the pills, so the humidifier has really helped me when it comes to waking up and not feeling like I'm breathing in razor blades. I got the Esemoil Cool Mist humidifier ($39.99) because I like that app connectivity and the fact that it changes colors.

And finally, I got a bottle of Hi-Lyte electrolyte supplement ($20.96) and put a few drops in my drinks in the hope this will hydrate me from the inside out. I really don't know if this one works, but it helps give me the feeling I'm doing something good for myself, even when I'm drinking something sugary and terrible, and that's the motivation I personally need to keep going.

So, in short, you'll likely be dry as a bone for a while when you start Accutane, but it's a great excuse to revitalize your collection of scents and potions. Just make sure you pick products that address your specific needs as they crop up.

Use the 'Ski Slope' Method When Cleaning Becomes Overwhelming

9 May 2024 at 12:30

Cleaning, decluttering, and organizing can get overwhelming if you try to tackle everything at once, and getting demoralized will only keep you from doing a good job (or doing it at all).

If this sounds like you, you need a plan of attack that will not only help you stay on task, but keep you feeling positive and motivated—so consider the so-called "ski slope method," which aims to keep your morale up by keeping your tasks discrete and manageable.  

What is the ski slope method? 

This technique comes from Anita Yokota, a licensed therapist who approaches organizing from a perspective informed by her expertise in mental health. She outlines the method in her book Home Therapy: Interior Design for Increasing Happiness, Boosting Confidence, and Creating Calm

Yokota sees a connection between disarray in someone’s life and disarray in their home—and how those two things can exacerbate each other. So she suggests acknowledging that cleaning is “a mental marathon,” something that happens over time (and continuously) instead of all at once.

Yokota's method prompts you to imagine your messy room is like a ski slope. If you try to go straight down (that is, tackle the entire task at once), it can feel overwhelming, but if you zig-zag (clean in stages), you can get down the mountain while experiencing far less stress.

So, consider the room you're aiming to clean. Rather than looking at it as a whole (a huge mess you'll never be able to clean!), start in one corner or section and work from there: clean, declutter, and organize. Move to the next side or section and do it again.. Continue moving through the room, working from side to side. As you finish each section, you can pause for a break if you need to, then pick back up where you left off.

Why the ski slope method works

The ski slope method helps you break your work into chunks that you can clearly visualize. Jumping from one corner or section to another farther away, you’re moving in bursts instead of starting in one spot and continually cleaning from there. As individual sections become tidy, you can see results, which can help you stay motivated. At the same time, the step-by-step approach gives you ample opportunities to take breaks, improving your chances of making it to the bottom of the mountain with your sanity intact.

You Need to Clean Your Dyson Airwrap’s Filter

9 May 2024 at 10:30

The Dyson Airwrap is the beloved haircare accessory of the moment, but it's also a pretty pricey one, so if you've made one a part of your daily routine, you probably want it to last a long time. If so, you should definitely be cleaning your Airwrap’s filter regularly.

Why is there a blinking white light on your Dyson Airwrap?

You're excused if you didn't know you had to do this, because it isn't entirely obvious. Unless you closely examined the box your hair tool came in, you even may have missed the tiny circular cleaning brush hidden in the back compartment. But you definitely have to do it: If you leave it uncleaned for too long, the first thing that will happen as a result is a blinking white warning light. The second thing that will happen is your device shutting down out of nowhere, mid-use, and refusing to turn back on for 10 to 15 minutes, and leaving you with a head of hair that's half dry and curled, and half just wet.

Avoid that fate by cleaning your filter the right way.

How to clean your Dyson Airwrap’s filter

This process is pretty simple, but you need to do it at least a few hours before you want to use the machine, so the parts have time to soak and dry. 

  1. First, remove the filter cover. That's the small, dotted cage at the bottom of the handle, just above where the electrical cord connects. Grip it firmly and rotate it counter-clockwise as you pull down and away from the Airwrap. A magnetic seam in the back will release, at which point it should come off easily. 

Dyson Airwrap filter being cleaned
The Airwrap filter cover in soapy water Credit: Lindsey Ellefson
  1. Run the filter under a stream of warm water, then plop it into a container of warm, soapy water to soak for about half an hour.

  2. Grab the filter cleaning brush from the box your machine came in. (It should be in a smaller box hidden somewhere in the larger container.) Slip the power cord through the hole in the brush, slide the brush to the spot where the filter cover usually clamps on, and move it in circular and up and down motions to remove anything caught in there. (If you don’t have this brush, you can try a stiff bristled brush like an old toothbrush, but you should never use anything wet on the body of the device.)

A Dyson Airwrap cleaning brush
This is what the brush looks like. Credit: Lindsey Ellefson
  1. After half an hour, remove the filter from the soapy water and let it air dry. Don’t reattach it until it’s fully dry. 

If cleaning doesn't stop the white light from blinking

If you’ve cleaned the filter and the LED light is still blinking, you may need to replace the filter cover. Dyson sells them for $19.99, but if they’re out of stock, which they are from time to time, Amazon offers third-party filter covers for as low as $13.68 (and they come with replacement cleaning brushes, too). 

Use a ‘Maybe Box’ to Declutter With Less Stress

8 May 2024 at 14:00

So much of the advice out there for decluttering calls on you to make instantaneous decisions about what stays and what goes—and expects you to put a lot of stuff in that “goes” category. There is certainly a good reason to try to do this with speed: The less time you spend considering something’s fate, the less time you have to get sentimental or start worrying about the unlikely event you’ll need it in the future. That said, some possessions really do pose a bit of a conundrum, and you need to take some additional time to think over what you should do with them. That’s where your “maybe box” comes in. 

What is a "maybe box"?

While all the different organizing and decluttering methods out there have their own protocols, they have something in common: You’re sorting your stuff into three piles—keep, donate, toss—and occasionally a fourth, which is sell. Typically, you do this with boxes of some kind, to make everything easier and clear the space you’re working on right away. 

Next time, add one more box: Adding a “maybe keep” box gives you an opportunity to put a few items in a kind-of purgatory while you reflect on their fate, but still clears the space you’re working on and doesn’t hold you up from continuing your decluttering work. 

How to use your maybe box

When you’re decluttering, you should always be working in small sections, focusing on a shelf, a drawer, or a specific space in a room so you don’t get overwhelmed. Doing that, you’re placing items into their corresponding boxes, usually deciding whether to keep, throw, or donate them. When you pick up something you end up deliberating about, though, it slows you way down as you ponder it, its potential future uses, and its personal meaning to you. Instead of doing that, toss it into the maybe box, which you’ll revisit later, so you can stay focused and keep grinding on the space in front of you. 

Set a period of time—like a month—where you won’t open the box or even acknowledge it. Only open the box if there is a specific item you actually need during that time (which will be proof the thing was actually necessary and shouldn’t get tossed). At the end of the time period, go back to the box and reconsider everything in there, asking yourself if you found yourself needing it, missing it, or forgetting about it entirely. Whatever you forgot can be gotten rid of and you can do that with a little more confidence after proving to yourself you didn’t really need it or care about it that much at all. As long as they have a designated spot to be stored, you can hold onto anything you found yourself missing badly. 

Doing a little experiment like this will help with indecision and guilt related to getting rid of certain things, but will also keep the space you’re working on clear of junk in the interim, so you don’t sacrifice immediate results while you figure it all out. Just try to select an opaque box so you can’t see the items inside—being reminded of their existence will bias you a little. Instead, find something you can’t see through and can stash somewhere out of the way.

How to Create a ‘Capsule Wardrobe’ (With Help From TikTok)

8 May 2024 at 13:30

If you have a ton of clothes, you may occasionally contemplate downsizing to create a "capsule wardrobe," comprised of basic pieces—like cardigans, plain shirts, and jeans—that can be mixed and matched to create multiple outfits. But actually doing it is a lot harder than imagining what it might be like to have a pared-down closet. What if you get rid of an item that would be just perfect for some future outfit? What if you then have to go buy a new one to replace it?

That’s where Project 333 comes in. This technique can help you figure out what really belongs in your collection, without forcing you to give anything up right off the bat.

What is Project 333?

Project 333 comes from Courtney Carver, who published Project 333: The Minimalist Fashion Challenge That Proves Less Really Is So Much More in 2020. Since then, the idea has blown up across social media, and particularly on TikTok, where users employ it to scale down their closets, to impressive effect.  

The general idea behind Project 33 is that you need far fewer articles of clothing than you think you do, and should be able to create plenty of appropriate outfits with just 33 different pieces.

How does Project 333 work?

When you start a round of Project 333, you set aside 33 pieces of clothing and box everything else up, removing it from your closets and drawers. The 33 pieces you choose to keep don’t include underwear or sentimental, everyday-wear jewelry; instead, they’re pants, sweaters, shirts, dresses, statement jewelry items, and similar.

Everything you don’t select for this round gets put somewhere else, like in storage, an attic, or a cabinet far from your wardrobe. Then, you only wear outfits mixed and matched from those 33 pieces, and you aim to do this for three whole months. 

When the three months are over, you can return to the boxed-up articles and look at them them with new eyes. Did you end up needing anything in there? Was there an article of clothing you were particularly itching to get back to? Anything you found you could easily do without, you can simply consider donating it or tossing it out. You already proved you don’t actually need it to create great outfits. 

Project 333 doesn't need to be all or nothing

Project 333 can work in cycles. You don’t have to toss or donate everything after you do it one time. It’s fine to get rid of just a few things, then try again with another 33 pieces for another three months, or work seasonally. In the end, your goal is to create a capsule wardrobe full of staples that you can consistently wear and use, but refining your overloaded closet to that degree can take time.

How to get started

As you set off on your streamlining journey, choose versatile items that can be worn multiple ways and times, like cardigan and undershirt combinations, utilitarian jeans, and no-frills dresses that can work with a variety of outerwear. In general, these mix-and-match pieces have more long-term value and deserve more space in your closet than the finicky things that you can only wear at certain times and in certain pairings.

The nice thing about Project 333 is that it can allow you to leave room for some of those froofier things—but you'll also have opportunity to reflect on which ones you really like (and missed) while they were boxed away. 

The Best Tools to Keep Your Purse or Bag Organized

7 May 2024 at 15:30

If you have a lot of bags, you need to be strategic about how you organize them. But even if you only have one bag, you need to organize its contents, and for that, you'll need an interior organizer. There are some great options out there, and the one you choose will depend on your needs and what kind of bag you favor. Here are some of my favorite options.

The best organizer for a tote bag

Totes are a go-to bag for work, commuting, the gym, the beach, or just running errands. The issue is that they usually lack any kind of interior pockets, favoring a single compartment with a lot of space where stuff can get jumbled together, making it tough to find what you're looking for. So pick an organizer that can give it some structure.

The OMYSTYLE organizer comes in various sizes from mini to extra large, is tall enough to give flimsy bags more shape, and features a bunch of pockets of different sizes so you can keep makeup, pens, or even tech gadgets separated and easy to find. This one is highly recommended across TikTok, too—check it out in action here.

The best organizer for frequent bag-switching

Real bagheads know that needs change from day to day, and sometimes multiple times per day, depending on where you're going, what you're wearing, and what you're toting around. Not every organizer will fit in every bag, so it's worth grabbing some mesh zipper bags that can keep your stuff separated no matter what size carrier you're using. Try these:

The best standalone bag organizer

This organizer from BTSKY has a handle and is available in a neutral beige color, meaning you can take it out of your bag and bring it around with you if you need to—a bag within a bag. It's a great option for when you get to work and don't feel like bringing your whole handbag into a meeting, or when you want to leave your expensive or unwieldy bag in a locker or at coat check after you've made your entrance, but you still need to carry around a few things. With 13 pockets and nearly a 12-inch width, it can handle most tech, along with whatever small items you want to stuff into it.

The best bag organizer for a classy look

If the style of your bag is just as important (or, if you're me, more important) than its function, you probably don't want a utilitarian organizer in there throwing off your aesthetic. The prettiest one I found is this simple black and gold winner from DailyPlus, which comes in six sizes from small to extra large and features 10 pockets, a wallet zipper pocket, and a place to attach your keys.

The best organizers for a suitcase

Suitcases are just big bags —arguably, the bags most likely to get jumbled up when full of stuff. To complete your bag-organizing journey, don't forget to pick up something to make your travels a little less chaotic.

This set comes with structured mesh bags, drawstring bags, and pouches so you can separate laundry, intimates, makeup, swimsuits, or whatever else you're traveling with.

The best organizer for a gym or diaper bag

Finally, if you're carrying around a big bag of heavy stuff—think a gym bag with sneakers or a diaper bag with baby supplies—you need something sturdy to keep it all separated. A bigger organizer, like this one from Comicfs, can keep dirty clothes and shoes separate from clean ones, bottles and diapers separate from blankets, or any other bigger items away from each other.

The Only Two Times You Can Effectively Multitask

7 May 2024 at 13:30

Typically speaking, multitasking makes you worse at everything. There’s plenty of scientific research to back this up and you probably have your own anecdotal evidence to support it. But sometimes, you just might need to—and sometimes, it just might be OK. The times when multitasking actually works are pretty rare and specific, so here’s what you need to know. 

Why not multitask all the time?

When you multitask, you’re interrupting yourself and your progress on every single task you’re doing. It’s considered by researchers to be “interruption behavior that decreases efficiency and wastes time.” Your performance slows down, your errors increase, and you get less done (or at least less done well) than you would if you scheduled your day so you approached one to-do list item at a time.

Obviously, it’s best to avoid this altogether. Get yourself a planner and allocate your time wisely so you have sufficient space to do one task at a time. 

When might multitasking work

That said, lives are busy. Some things just don’t go according to plan and there’s nothing you can do about it. You may find that you need to double up on activities just to get it all done. If possible, only multitask in one of these two situations: 

If you’re listening to an audiobook while you run or calling your mom while you drive, that’s fine, as long as you’ve run or driven so much that it’s pretty much second nature. Still, anything that makes it complex—like unexpected road construction or a stretch of street lights going out—can suddenly turn the task into an unfamiliar one, and that’s when multitasking won’t work as well. 

To the best of your ability, avoid doing it altogether. Try using the Pomodoro technique to work on one task for a sustained amount of time, then take a five-minute break before getting back to it. During that break, you can shift gears, respond to emails, call people back, relax, or do whatever else. Pick up a timer to keep track of how long you’re working so you don’t accidentally get sucked into multitasking by checking your phone for the time and noticing a message that needs responding to. 

Use the ‘Organizational Triangle’ to Keep Your House Neater

6 May 2024 at 15:30

When you finally decide to declutter and organize your home, the initial clearing out and restructuring is important (and so satisfying), but keeping things in order going forward will pose a greater challenge. To lead a more organized and decluttered life over the long haul, focus on three pillars that form the Organizational Triangle.

What is the organizational triangle?

The Organizational Triangle was conceptualized by pro organizer Andrew Mellen, the man behind The Most Organized Man in America's Guide to Moving and Unstuff Your Life: Kick the Clutter Habit and Completely Organize Your Life for Good. While Mellen writes and speaks about all manner of organization and decluttering, he describes the Organizational Triangle as "the foundation" of all of his work. This three-tiered approach provides a simple process for maintaining a clutter-free home:

  • Every item needs a home

  • Keep like with like

  • Use a something in, something out approach

Keep these three tenets in mind during your initial decluttering, and going forward as well, so your place stays neat and won’t require another big clean in a year or so. Here's a deeper look at what each step involves.

Step 1: Every item needs a home

This step is crucial when you’re first starting out. No matter which of the many available cleaning techniques you choose to follow, you’ll almost certainly end up categorizing your possessions by whether you want to keep, throw out, donate, or sell them. When aligning your clearing out with the tenants of the Organizational Triangle, you’ll need to closely assess anything you decide you want to keep. 

That's because every item in your home should have its designated space, whether that’s a certain drawer, cabinet, basket, or shelf. If you can’t think of a permanent home for something, you either need to make one or get rid of that thing. Nothing should be floating around, moving from space to space, or otherwise homeless within your home. The reason for this is simple: Anything you want to access should be somewhere you'll know to look for it. It should only ever be in one of two places: in its designated spot, or in your hands. Decluttering is useless if the items that remain end up piled on a table or aren’t easy to find when you actually need them. 

Step 2: Keep like with like

The second step is to reorganize your space to keep alike things together, always. For instance, don’t keep some screwdrivers in the garage and others in the kitchen, even though it seems intuitive to imagine that when you need a screwdriver while doing an indoor task, it will be handier to have one closer to you. Don’t keep a basket of batteries in each room; put them all together. Etc. 

If you have AA batteries in a drawer in your living room in case you need them for the remote, but all your other batteries in a basket in a kitchen cabinet, you might not remember where to find those AA batteries when the remote for the fan in your bedroom goes out. You’ll go to search the kitchen basket, find nothing, and buy AA batteries from the store, wasting money. Meanwhile, the batteries in the living room will be yet more clutter. 

Step 3: Something in, something out

Something in, something out is a tried-and-true organizational method you should only employ once you have finished an initial round of decluttering and are moving forward into a more organized lifestyle. But it's pretty basic: When you get something new, get rid of something old to make space for it. If you’re following the Organizational Triangle’s rules, you know there needs to be a spot for everything, but space is finite. Don’t cram too much into your shelves and drawers or else they’ll end up cluttered, too. 

If a lot of items fit into a space, that’s great, but in most cases, you need to be strategic about how much stuff you accumulate. If you can only use one of a thing at a time and you’re committed to following the above rules about putting every item back in its place when you’re done using it, there's no point in having more than one. Accumulating multiples of objects only makes it easier for you to slack on the rule about putting things back where they belong after use. Following a something in, something out rule can also act as a check on your impulse buying habit, since you'll know that buying something new means getting rid of something old.

Use the 'Five-second Rule' to Declutter Faster

4 May 2024 at 10:00

Once you decide on a decluttering method to clean out your home, the real work begins. Almost every popular technique out there requires you to group your items into three or four categories: Keep, throw, donate, and possibly, sell. Putting each item in its correct pile is not as easy as the step-by-step rules make it seem, but there’s a trick called the five-second rule that you can use to keep the process efficient. 

What is the five-second rule?

The five-second rule is a widely-adaptable technique from organizational coach Mel Robbins, who advocates for it in her books. According to Robbins, you should make major decisions in under five seconds, actually counting down five, four, three, two, one. Your brain will know that at the end of that countdown, it has to make a choice; there’s a sense of urgency to it. This will push you to make quick, efficient decisions. I do this all the time, like when I have to rip off a bandage or open one of those popping cans of biscuits (which really freaks me out). There’s just something about the countdown that amps you up to do the thing you don’t want to do or are deliberating about. 

How does the five-second rule apply in decluttering?

Adapting the five-second rule for decluttering is a big tip that floats around minimalist spaces online. You can use it to spur yourself to start cleaning if you’re feeling overwhelmed, but most often, it’s applied to the moments you spend debating internally about whether or not something should be kept or tossed out. 

The less time you give yourself to make the choice, the better off you’ll be. You can rationalize keeping anything if you give yourself long enough to do it, but the goal of decluttering is to minimize the amount of stuff you have and organize the stuff that’s leftover, not make a bunch of excuses for why you can’t downsize. When you pick something up in the process of decluttering, you usually know instinctively if you really need it. Holding it and considering it for too long doesn’t take away from what you already know to be true so much as it gives you time to come up with reasons the thing should be kept. Commit to sorting everything you touch into a keep or get-rid-of pile as soon as you pick it up and in no more than five seconds, employing the countdown if you have to in a tough moment. 

For anything that really makes you struggle and can’t be so easily sorted in five seconds, follow the Minimalists’ 20/20 rule, asking yourself whether the thing you’re debating keeping could be replaced for under $20 and in under 20 minutes in the unlikely event you ever need it again. If you answer those questions with a yes, throw it out.

Training yourself to be quick and decisive in these instances will help you build the habit of parting with things easily and not assigning false sentimentality or need to items that simply have no business sticking around. 

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