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Do we really β€˜hold tension’ in our hips?

11 October 2026 at 12:00

The idea is popular in wellness circles, but experts say there’s no evidence that trauma uniquely affects the hips. Here’s what causes hip tightness and what can help

In yoga classes, on TikTok and throughout other wellness spaces, you’ve probably heard the saying: your hips hold tension. These joints have a reputation of being emotional storage units of sorts – but is it true that they are affected by old traumas and painful memories?

Pain and muscle tension hit harder when you’re going through a difficult time. But should tight hips make you question your mental health? And what can you do to reduce hip tightness? Here’s what you need to know.

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Β© Composite: The Guardian/Getty Images

Β© Composite: The Guardian/Getty Images

Β© Composite: The Guardian/Getty Images

β€˜We live in grief-phobic societies’: experts on how to get more comfortable with death

6 October 2026 at 12:00

We are all going to die, and so is everyone we know. So how can you not be terrified?

For most people, death is not a standard conversation topic. Once, at lunch, a friend began talking about her mother’s death several years earlier. Her voice caught occasionally, but she spoke about it plainly – like a simple fact of life. As we talked, I noticed another friend was shifting uncomfortably in his seat; he didn’t say much.

Afterwards, I asked him what was wrong. β€œI really don’t like talking about death,” he said, his hands twitching anxiously. β€œI don’t even like thinking about it. It freaks me out.”

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Β© Illustration: Ibrahim Rayintakath/The Guardian

Β© Illustration: Ibrahim Rayintakath/The Guardian

Β© Illustration: Ibrahim Rayintakath/The Guardian

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